experiment: sequins

“seriously, sequins? haha who wears sequins anymore?”“maybe i’ll just try it on for fun. as a joke, yeah. . . no harm in that surely, heh heh”“wait, that one is better, check out that black to silver gradient!”“maybe I can wear sequins.""now that i think of it, even jcrew has sequiny tops."“okay maybe just for the holidays. you’re allowed to sparkle on new years, yeah?”“i’ll just um, sneak it in between these two shirts and try it on.”“hmmm. emmmm. hmm. hahahaha.”what i have learned:n...

experiment: hospitality

in the past, i've felt a disastrous hostess. i don't do well at planning things ahead of time and manage what time i do have poorly. usually i'm too busy dancing or walking in on people making out to make the rounds to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves. and i also don't know how good i am at anticipating needs. My old manager used to tell me, "it isn't enough to just bring what people ask you, you have to bring them what they don't even realize they need." so what- give people the "don't stop me now" before they realize they have a freddie mercury itch that needs to be scratched? well i didn't, lindsey did. ah me. but in spite of it all, including a slight baking...